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To Keep or Not To Keep?

July 15, 2015 by jessica

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To keep or not to keep? Undoubtedly, that’s the single question that plagues us whenever we order something that juuust about meets expectations upon arrival. For me, I’m going back and forth on this Tory Burch purse.

On one hand, there are the pros:

  • It’s made of Saffiano leather, which is stain- and scratch-resistant and repels water.
  • The color is beautiful.
  • It’s roomy and even fits my camera if I’m not planning to bring much else along for the day.
  • It has a classic, ladylike shape.
  • I can see myself tucking it away in my closet after the initial wear and falling madly in love with it again a few years later.
  • I got an incredible deal on it ($227, down from $465).
  • It would transition well to cooler months with camel, burgundy, and navy. It also looks good with my emerald winter coat.
  • I tend to buy a new bag and wear it all of the time. It’d be nice to shake things up.

On the other hand, the cons:

  • It’s a little bulky when used as a crossbody bag.
  • The chain is stiff.
  • I don’t have the “oh my goodness, I need to wear this now” feeling, which is usually my litmus test for new purchases.
  • I should probably put that money toward something responsible, like travel. Or, you know, my IRA.
  • It’s not quite as vibrant as it appeared in the stock images (or even as vibrant as it appears here).
  • I don’t need another handbag.

I really don’t know what to do about this one. The money isn’t the issue here. I gave myself an arbitrary $250 per month limit, but going over for this wouldn’t break the bank. I just can’t decide if I should keep this since I’m about 90% sold on it or if I should return it and wait for something that I can’t live without. What would you do? What’s your love it or leave it criteria?

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Comments

  1. Simply Sarah says

    July 15, 2015 at 6:23 am

    It’s a lovely bag, but over 200 is a lot for an item you’re not completely sold on — even if it was originally almost 500 (sales are such tricksters). If it were me, I would put that money aside and wait for something that screams “YES!” In the mean time you can even save up a little extra just in case the “yes” piece is a little more expensive. Good luck deciding!
    Peace, Sarah
    simplysarahs.blogspot.com

  2. Yolonda Washington says

    July 15, 2015 at 6:28 am

    It’s nice but I say return it. It doesn’t scream I will show you off A LOT. The color is pretty but find that it will not get much rotation as you may think. Wait for something that you just can’t be without.

  3. jillian says

    July 15, 2015 at 7:46 am

    i like everything about this bag…except the color. too loud for me 🙂 better as a mani or pedicure color and wayyy cheaper to do that 😉 xo jillian – cornflake dreams

  4. Closet Fashionista says

    July 15, 2015 at 8:39 am

    Hmm…yea, with such a big ticket item you want to be at least 99% satisfied, haha. So I would say let it go in favor of something that makes your heart skip a beat when it arrives! 😀
    http://www.closet-fashionista.com/

  5. Lorena Lorena says

    July 15, 2015 at 9:18 am

    The question for me would be, do I have any other bags in this colour ?

  6. Yesenia says

    July 15, 2015 at 9:29 am

    I love it, I say keep it. It will def be a conversation starter and it goes with so much bc it does add the pop of color.

  7. Shea Sayers says

    July 15, 2015 at 9:36 am

    I think it’s gorgeous, but if there’s something holding you back from keeping it and being 100% sure, I think it should go back. That way if a new bag you DO get that ohmygoshIlovethis feeling about comes along you won’t feel like you shouldn’t buy it because you bought this one. If you have to talk yourself into it, it may not be the right one.

  8. Merritt Beck says

    July 15, 2015 at 10:34 am

    I think it’s a beauty, but I much prefer to spend money on classic bags vs statement pieces. They last longer, can be worn with more things and will stand the test of time/trends.

    The Style Scribe

  9. Michele M says

    July 15, 2015 at 3:02 pm

    I think this bag is very beautiful. The way I look at designer handbags is I have to be totally in love with the bag in order to make the purchase. Follow your instinct. 🙂
    Greetings from Canada!

    http://www.chicuturnonglitz.blogspot.com

  10. sandyalamode says

    July 15, 2015 at 5:55 pm

    that purse is amazing! I SAY KEEP IT!!!

    xo,
    Sandy
    Sandy a la Mode

  11. Danielle Griffin says

    July 15, 2015 at 6:11 pm

    KEEP!!! Its so nice!! I love the color and style!! You will use it for sure!!

  12. jess z says

    July 15, 2015 at 6:43 pm

    I really like the color and texture on it.I’d keep it.

  13. sherry @ save. spend. splurge. says

    July 15, 2015 at 6:57 pm

    If you don’t immediately, 100% love it and feel: I MUST HAVE THIS… then it goes back.

    That’s my rule. I’ve regretted too many purchases and with it not being $25 and being $250, it’s a good deal, yeah.. but you’re going to find something BETTER for maybe the same amount or a bit more and think: DAMN IT. I wasted $250.

    Save that $250 and carry it over to August if you can’t find something. That way you now have $500. 🙂

  14. Jenn says

    July 15, 2015 at 10:33 pm

    I think if you’re hesitating about it now, you should return it. It’s beautiful and looks like a fun statement piece, but for the same reasons it may not end up being something you end up wearing as often as you thought.

  15. Kimi, Cotton Cashmere Cat Hair says

    July 15, 2015 at 10:50 pm

    I learned from experience (too many experiences, really) that if I’m at ALL hesitant, it needs to go back. It’s not worth spending the money (regardless of how good of a deal it was) if I end up not wearing it and would have rather put that money towards something else that I can’t live without.

  16. Laura says

    July 16, 2015 at 12:55 am

    I think this bag is super cute but I say, if you’re not 100% return it and wait for something that you absolutely LOVE!!
    xx
    Laura
    http://www.sequinsatbreakfast.com

  17. Tracy says

    July 16, 2015 at 9:03 am

    Remember asking the question: Does it bring you joy? You might like it, but if you don’t LOVE it and it doesn’t give you that ultimate joy, then I say return it. (But it is sooo pretty!!)

  18. Lyddiegal says

    July 16, 2015 at 10:34 pm

    That bag is big enough for a camera? I would have never guessed that!

    I’ve been wanting a bright pink bag for years. I’ve had my eyes on the Coach Penny (searching ebay) but every time I’ve come close, I back out at the last second. Is it because it’s pink? I have no problem pulling the trigger on a neutral, and always argue that a good bag is worth a splurge, but somehow pink feels like a tough sell. I however, love it, and feel like if I had it in my possession, I’d probably keep it.

    Chic on the Cheap

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