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Let’s Talk: Budgeting

August 17, 2015 by jessica

LetsTalkAboutBudgeting

We all skirt around the issue of money on our blogs and, to be honest, I’ve never really felt comfortable with my budget posts because they don’t accurately reflect how I budget for clothing. So, I thought I’d open the discussion about budgeting to share my strategies and learn your tips for fiscal responsibility.

GOAL SETTING

Before determining what to spend, or even what to save, setting up financial goals is a must. This includes long-term goals (like retirement), paying off debt, and big ticket purchases (think future house, not future handbag). Determine how much you need to accomplish these things and work backward to figure how much you need to put toward your goals annually and then monthly. These are your priority items that you should treat like a monthly bill. I urge you to be realistic about how much you can save each month. If all you can save is $50 per paycheck, it’s better than nothing. Choosing an unrealistic goal will leave you discouraged and unlikely to continue saving. (It should go without saying that paying off credit card debt should be your top priority. And, for goodness sakes, take advantage of your company’s 401(k) plan. It’s free money if they match your contributions.)

SAVING

Now it’s time to save. Without savings, we’d never have enough money for a home, vacation, wedding, or a covetable handbag. I use Capital One 360 to set up various savings accounts (no, this isn’t sponsored). I have a general account that doubles as my emergency fund where I’m working to save up three months of income. I also have a “Europe” savings account, a “Home” account for a future down payment and furnishings for our current place, and a “Splurge” account. Whenever I get paid, I transfer a set amount to each account. I don’t put very much in my “Splurge” account, only $50 per paycheck, but it’s also where blog income and eBay earnings go. The great thing about Capital One 360 is that you can create as many different savings accounts as you want without the need for a minimum balance. You can also name and rename the accounts to remind you of your goals. (I had one when I was saving for my Hermes bracelet. Having the account named as such made made me feel less guilty about spending that kind of cash on a piece of jewelry. Now, I’m starting one for the mini Chloe “Marcie” bag I love so much.) It’s important to put a dollar amount to each of your goals and determine a monthly savings goal to help you get there. It adds a level of urgency that helps to prioritize it when you’re weighing your options between putting that $200 in savings or buying a dress (ahem) that caught your eye.

BUDGETING

To determine my budget, I add the overall expected income for the month and subtract all fixed expenses (rent, student loans, etc.), credit card debt, expected variable expenses (i.e. medical bills for my fractured foot or car repairs), and savings goals. These are the nonnegotiable priority items that must be paid off first. Then, I take the remaining amount and divide that by four to calculate my weekly budget. This is money I use for clothing, dining out, entertainment, gas, and groceries. I found it too overwhelming to set a monthly spending limit for things like groceries. Breaking it down into a week-by-week limit makes it easier for me to manage. I offset any surplus or deficit with money from the surrounding weeks. This is why my monthly clothing budget didn’t really hold up. In the event that I want to splurge, I first supplemented my income with blog revenue or higher than average work commissions, and I cut back on spending in other areas.

For example, here’s where my money went last week. My starting balance is $225:

  • J.Crew Sweater: $64 (This hasn’t arrived yet. I’ll add the money to this week’s budget if I need to return it.)
  • Groceries: $84
  • Dining Out: $11
  • Home: $17
  • Gas: $72 (This is unusually high because we drove to my parents’ house last weekend. It’s usually $25-30 per week.)
  • Misc.: $9

That left me with a deficit of $31.50 that I’ll subtract from this week’s budget. Calculating my spending each week helps me stay on track to address these deficits before they snowball into a larger amount. Left unaddressed, $30 per week turns into $120 that I didn’t account for during the month. That money would be taken back out of savings and I’d lose traction on my long-term goals.

ADDITIONAL STRATEGIES

There are a few additional savvy spending and saving tactics to keep in mind:

  • Cost Per Wear: This totally comes off as a fashion girl’s hinkey rationalization for a big ticket item, but there’s truth in it. Spending $200 on a dress you’ll wear 10 times comes out to just $20 per wear. A $60 ASOS number that you only wear once isn’t a worthwhile purchase. It’s hard to avoid those cheap thrills, I know, but it’s worth training yourself to spot items you’ll actually get enough use out of. (That said, go for that ASOS dress if you think you’ll wear it as often and the quality will hold up.)
  • Rewards Credit Cards: Tread lightly with this piece of advice. As long as you’re able to pay off your credit card debt in full every month, go for a credit card with a great rewards program. I have a Capital One Venture card that’s basically like getting cash back to use on travel purchases. If you’re tempted to overspend, stick with cash or your debit card.
  • Plan Purchases: I have a private Pinterest board where I pin potential purchases. So, when there’s an unexpected Lilly Pulitzer sale, I’m not nearly as tempted to stray from my planned purchases to waste money on something else.
  • Unroll Promotional Emails: I use Unroll.me to consolidate promotional emails into one email I look at daily. This cuts down on sale temptation tremendously. I also use the service to manage subscriptions to store mailings and unsubscribe from ones I no longer care about. (Is there ever not a sale event at LOFT?!)
  • Research Purchases: I understand the temptation of a flash sale, but do some research if it’s a brand that multiple retailers carry. Many times you can find the item even cheaper or discover a discount code at another location.

WHAT’S YOUR BUDGET M.O.?

And, if you just want the wallet…

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Comments

  1. Closet Fashionista says

    August 17, 2015 at 10:01 am

    Such a good post! I do the same except I keep my budgets monthly. I use Mint to help keep track of my money. And also LearnVest as a supplement because, in addition to my specific budgets, it groups spending into 4 categories Income, Fixed Costs, Flex Spending and Priority Goals so I can see how I’m doing overall with my budget.

    • Jessica says

      August 17, 2015 at 10:44 am

      I actually used Mint for awhile, but didn’t think it worked very well for me on its own. I tend to spend too much at the beginning of the month and then scrimp and save when I realize I’ve already reached my limits 10 days into the month!

      I’ll look into LearnVest. I’ve heard good things about their services.

      • Closet Fashionista says

        August 17, 2015 at 11:03 am

        Yea, I use the free LV program and just budget on my own, but you can also do the paid ones where someone helps you figure everything out. Too expensive, haha.

  2. Kyle @ Professionalish says

    August 17, 2015 at 10:02 am

    Thank you so much for posting this! I use a pretty similar system that makes budgeting really easy for me. I always love to see how other ladies work their financials

  3. Rachelle says

    August 17, 2015 at 12:30 pm

    This is such a great post, I really struggle with buying really expensive items. I saved all year to get a nice purse for my birthday (it’s the big 30), and wanted the small chloe marcie as well but I’m not sure I can just drop $800 on a bag. So we’ll see! But I do think it is better when you carefully plan your big purchases. I struggled with buying little things here and there, that end up being a lot. Although I am doing much better with that. I just unrolled to all promotional emails and I’m currently doing a Loft/J.Crew/Express ban. Maybe if I spent less at these stores I wouldn’t feel so guilty about the Chloe Marcie. :/ II’ll look in Capital One 360 I just wanted to set a new savings account.

    • Jessica says

      August 17, 2015 at 1:03 pm

      Usually CapOne does a referral bonus where the person signing up gets a decent amount of money. Right now, the details are off the website. If it comes back, I’ll share the info with you. I signed up under Dave’s referral link. He got $25 and I got $50 as long as I put in $200 (I think?) and didn’t touch it for a month or so.

    • sherry @ save. spend. splurge. says

      August 25, 2015 at 7:22 am

      It’s better to drop $800 on a bag you want than to waste $500 on various bags that don’t fulfill that need.

  4. Shea Sayers says

    August 17, 2015 at 3:02 pm

    I love reading how you budget, and I love how you divide up your savings into different types of savings. Once we have money that will go towards more than just house/moving expenses, I’m going to have to try that. I also love Unroll.me too–it definitely helps keep all those sale emails under control!

  5. Meghan Hayes says

    August 17, 2015 at 3:31 pm

    I’m loving this post. All very great things to keep in mind. Starting right out the gate defining future big ticket purchases is so true and something so many people don’t get (men and women included). Before you know it, even if they get a decent paycheck, they’ve spent more than they make. Bookmarking this for later.

  6. Lorena Lorena says

    August 17, 2015 at 4:36 pm

    My grandmother always said something I try to stick to when it comes to budgeting, it goes something like: “I like the taste of champagne but have only enough for beer in my pocket…”

  7. Jessa says

    August 17, 2015 at 8:34 pm

    I love talking about budgets. I use a similar strategy, and have my savings automatically withdrawn to coincide with payday (pay yourself first). I have savings accounts for specific goals: travel, investment and retirement. I’ve also got a US dollar account so I’ve always got cash on hand for cross-border shopping and activities. The $$ I spend on clothes gets calculated as a percentage of my net income, and I save $20/week for splurges like expensive purses, jewelry and shoes.

    • sherry @ save. spend. splurge. says

      August 25, 2015 at 7:22 am

      That’s a really smart way of doing it..

  8. Kimi, Cotton Cashmere Cat Hair says

    August 17, 2015 at 11:08 pm

    I really need to do a better job of budgeting. I’ve had a ton of car issues lately which is eating all of my money, but I know I’m not cutting back on spending as much as I should. My parents have been encouraging me to start an IRA, too, which I think is a great idea! I definitely need to learn more about/be more aware of my money.

    • sherry @ save. spend. splurge. says

      August 25, 2015 at 7:22 am

      If you’re interested, I blog about money and there are tons of people online who blog about their finances in detail too.

  9. Heather Noire says

    August 17, 2015 at 11:27 pm

    Really great tips! I love your blog happy to check it out 🙂 http://bauchlefashion.com

  10. Jasmine @makingrestorations says

    August 18, 2015 at 12:28 pm

    So many bloggers don’t talk about this so I love that you did. I always share my monthly clothing budget and our trip budgets

    • sherry @ save. spend. splurge. says

      August 25, 2015 at 7:21 am

      Me too!!!

  11. Alison @ Peacoat Diaries says

    August 22, 2015 at 3:21 pm

    Ahh, I think Unroll.me is going to change my life! I was seriously considering abandoning my current email address because I can’t seem to control all of the endless sale notifications. I love Loft and AT, but they email WAY too much (and address me as Suzy, for reasons unknown). Thanks for the tip!

  12. sherry @ save. spend. splurge. says

    August 25, 2015 at 7:21 am

    I post budget here each month .. it is really important to talk about money. It’s one thing to spend all the time, but not at the expense of your future.

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