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Let’s Talk: Budgeting

August 17, 2015 by jessica 19 Comments

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We all skirt around the issue of money on our blogs and, to be honest, I’ve never really felt comfortable with my budget posts because they don’t accurately reflect how I budget for clothing. So, I thought I’d open the discussion about budgeting to share my strategies and learn your tips for fiscal responsibility.

GOAL SETTING

Before determining what to spend, or even what to save, setting up financial goals is a must. This includes long-term goals (like retirement), paying off debt, and big ticket purchases (think future house, not future handbag). Determine how much you need to accomplish these things and work backward to figure how much you need to put toward your goals annually and then monthly. These are your priority items that you should treat like a monthly bill. I urge you to be realistic about how much you can save each month. If all you can save is $50 per paycheck, it’s better than nothing. Choosing an unrealistic goal will leave you discouraged and unlikely to continue saving. (It should go without saying that paying off credit card debt should be your top priority. And, for goodness sakes, take advantage of your company’s 401(k) plan. It’s free money if they match your contributions.)

SAVING

Now it’s time to save. Without savings, we’d never have enough money for a home, vacation, wedding, or a covetable handbag. I use Capital One 360 to set up various savings accounts (no, this isn’t sponsored). I have a general account that doubles as my emergency fund where I’m working to save up three months of income. I also have a “Europe” savings account, a “Home” account for a future down payment and furnishings for our current place, and a “Splurge” account. Whenever I get paid, I transfer a set amount to each account. I don’t put very much in my “Splurge” account, only $50 per paycheck, but it’s also where blog income and eBay earnings go. The great thing about Capital One 360 is that you can create as many different savings accounts as you want without the need for a minimum balance. You can also name and rename the accounts to remind you of your goals. (I had one when I was saving for my Hermes bracelet. Having the account named as such made made me feel less guilty about spending that kind of cash on a piece of jewelry. Now, I’m starting one for the mini Chloe “Marcie” bag I love so much.) It’s important to put a dollar amount to each of your goals and determine a monthly savings goal to help you get there. It adds a level of urgency that helps to prioritize it when you’re weighing your options between putting that $200 in savings or buying a dress (ahem) that caught your eye.

BUDGETING

To determine my budget, I add the overall expected income for the month and subtract all fixed expenses (rent, student loans, etc.), credit card debt, expected variable expenses (i.e. medical bills for my fractured foot or car repairs), and savings goals. These are the nonnegotiable priority items that must be paid off first. Then, I take the remaining amount and divide that by four to calculate my weekly budget. This is money I use for clothing, dining out, entertainment, gas, and groceries. I found it too overwhelming to set a monthly spending limit for things like groceries. Breaking it down into a week-by-week limit makes it easier for me to manage. I offset any surplus or deficit with money from the surrounding weeks. This is why my monthly clothing budget didn’t really hold up. In the event that I want to splurge, I first supplemented my income with blog revenue or higher than average work commissions, and I cut back on spending in other areas.

For example, here’s where my money went last week. My starting balance is $225:

  • J.Crew Sweater: $64 (This hasn’t arrived yet. I’ll add the money to this week’s budget if I need to return it.)
  • Groceries: $84
  • Dining Out: $11
  • Home: $17
  • Gas: $72 (This is unusually high because we drove to my parents’ house last weekend. It’s usually $25-30 per week.)
  • Misc.: $9

That left me with a deficit of $31.50 that I’ll subtract from this week’s budget. Calculating my spending each week helps me stay on track to address these deficits before they snowball into a larger amount. Left unaddressed, $30 per week turns into $120 that I didn’t account for during the month. That money would be taken back out of savings and I’d lose traction on my long-term goals.

ADDITIONAL STRATEGIES

There are a few additional savvy spending and saving tactics to keep in mind:

  • Cost Per Wear: This totally comes off as a fashion girl’s hinkey rationalization for a big ticket item, but there’s truth in it. Spending $200 on a dress you’ll wear 10 times comes out to just $20 per wear. A $60 ASOS number that you only wear once isn’t a worthwhile purchase. It’s hard to avoid those cheap thrills, I know, but it’s worth training yourself to spot items you’ll actually get enough use out of. (That said, go for that ASOS dress if you think you’ll wear it as often and the quality will hold up.)
  • Rewards Credit Cards: Tread lightly with this piece of advice. As long as you’re able to pay off your credit card debt in full every month, go for a credit card with a great rewards program. I have a Capital One Venture card that’s basically like getting cash back to use on travel purchases. If you’re tempted to overspend, stick with cash or your debit card.
  • Plan Purchases: I have a private Pinterest board where I pin potential purchases. So, when there’s an unexpected Lilly Pulitzer sale, I’m not nearly as tempted to stray from my planned purchases to waste money on something else.
  • Unroll Promotional Emails: I use Unroll.me to consolidate promotional emails into one email I look at daily. This cuts down on sale temptation tremendously. I also use the service to manage subscriptions to store mailings and unsubscribe from ones I no longer care about. (Is there ever not a sale event at LOFT?!)
  • Research Purchases: I understand the temptation of a flash sale, but do some research if it’s a brand that multiple retailers carry. Many times you can find the item even cheaper or discover a discount code at another location.

WHAT’S YOUR BUDGET M.O.?

And, if you just want the wallet…

Filed Under: Budget Tagged With: Budget, how to budget, kate spade wallet

The Weekend Guide

August 15, 2015 by jessica 3 Comments

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CONSIDER
For years, we’ve known that women who wear makeup are treated more favorably and earn more money. What other costs are hiding in the so-called “Makeup Tax?”

COOK
We made these spicy Thai noodles last week. So. Good. I’d like to suggest a couple of changes, however. Namely, another tablespoon of Sriracha and rice noodles instead of linguine noodles. We also made this margarita shredded chicken for tacos (equally delicious) and a cucumber radish salad (not great).

EXTEND
Gray Malin’s photographs make me almost as happy as summer does. Keep those blissful feelings for as long as possible with one of his new prints.

DIY
Transfer your herbs to these chic do-it-yourself gold leaf planters. You’ll appreciate how pretty these look when the first frost hits and you’re forced to bring your plants indoors.

CHOOSE
Buying sunglasses online can be daunting. This guide can point you in the right direction.

SHARE
Life isn’t one big Instagram filter of sunshine, lattes, and vacations. #TotalHonestyTuesday challenges people to get real.

EARLIER THIS WEEK
My favorite top to wear on vacation.
A must-have list that illustrates my end-of-summer aesthetic.
Treating myself to a new dress. (Snag it for $50 here.)
Celebrating #WorldElephantDay.
Is a $200 curling iron worth it?
This week’s top five under $55.

Filed Under: Weekend Guide Tagged With: gold leaf planters, Gray Malin photography, makeup tax, spicy Thai noodles

Five Under $55

August 14, 2015 by jessica 7 Comments

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In addition to the budget finds above, be sure to check out LOFT’s friends and family sale this weekend for 40% off everything. I tried this dress on in the store. The bodice was a little too tight, but it was adorable otherwise. This LBD looks like it has the potential to be a wardrobe staple (especially with an adorable pair of oxfords!).

J.Crew’s sale runs through the weekend. You can take 30% off a purchase of $200+ or 25% off a purchase of $100+ with code SHOPMORE. I’m bummed that this skort isn’t included in the promotion. Instead, I ordered the swing pullover sweater in grey. It looks like something I’ll reach for every weekend this fall.

Filed Under: Budget Style Tagged With: american rag krista sandal, bauble bar organic landscape pendant, finds under $55, sole society rose fringe bag

Review: Irresistible Me Curling Wand

August 13, 2015 by jessica 4 Comments

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This post could really be subtitled “The Stupid Faces I Make When Curling My Hair.” Obviously, I didn’t include them in an effort of self-preservation, but Dave caught them all on camera. I look bored in some, sleepy in others, and downright angry in most! And there’s no reason for it, since this 8-in-1 complete curler by Irresistable Me is pretty amazing.

I curl my hair almost daily, so I was pretty jazzed when the company offered to send over the Holy Grail of curling irons. The kit includes a heating handle, eight wands, and a heat-resistant glove to keep your fingers from burning (safety first!), and it all comes neatly rolled up in a nylon carrying case. (I felt like a serious beauty addict with this thing in tow.) I used it for the first time when we visited Louisville and have continued to style my hair with it since.

PROS

  • So. Many. Choices. Anyone with hairdo A.D.D. is going to love playing with the different size barrels.
  • Fast and even heating elements. Seriously, it took less than 30 seconds to heat up. You’ll also notice there’s a LED screen on the handle. This shows you the exact temperature of the wand. Through a bit of trial-and-error, I discovered I need to bump up the heat to keep the curls in my hair longer. I’m never able to hold curls for long with fine, straight hair, but my locks were still wavy at the end of the night.
  • No frizzy hair. Honestly, I don’t understand how “the tourmaline technology with negative ions” keeps hair shiny and smooth, but it does. (Magic, probably.) The ends of my hair usually look dried out and frizzy when using a traditional curling iron with the clamp. I didn’t have that problem with this wand.
  • One-year warranty.

CONS

  • It’s an investment at $200. This works out to $25 per wand. If you have a particular barrel size and shape you never stray from, this might not be the best way to spend your money. It seems better suited for ladies who like to switch up their hairstyles on the regular.
  • The kit is bulky to travel with. Pick one or two barrels and toss those in your luggage instead.
  • No clamp makes burning your fingers a very real possibility. This is where that heat-resistant glove comes in. Use it.

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Dress: Dee Elle ($29!) | Bracelets: Hermes, c/o Julie Vos (similar on sale) | Rings: Lulu Frost, c/o Vrai & Oro | Curling Wand: c/o Irresistible Me

Filed Under: Beauty Tagged With: beauty, irresistable me, irresistable me 8-in-1 curling wand, irresistable me curling iron, review, sponsored review

The Coveted

August 12, 2015 by jessica 6 Comments

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If there was ever a post that illustrated my end-of-summer aesthetic, this is it. I’m all about the relaxed bohemian vibe with these finds:

  • A loose gauze dress from BB Dakota. If you saw my Instagram yesterday, you know I already added it to my wardrobe. It’s on sale for just $50 and fits true-to-size. (I went with a medium.) Find this “Bronwen” style and other BB Dakota sale dresses here. I’m also loving the brand d.Ra for other affordable frocks. There’s a yellow one I’m smitten with.
  • A printed haircalf clutch by Clare V. Thus far, I’ve resisted adding the brand’s signature pouch to my collection. I’m just not sure how much I’d actually use it. This is the first design that makes me willing to risk it.
  • These fantastic fringe earrings. There’s also a matching necklace that I’m equally obsessed with.
  • The perfect nude polish that has just the right amount of pink.
  • A Moroccan pouf. You have no idea how much I want one of these. I’ve been on a huge decorating kick lately. In fact, housewares are pretty much all I look at after work now. Replacing the couches that our cat christened as his scratching post is our next priority, but I’ve been dying to add a pouf to our apartment for the longest time. I originally found this one in faux leather on Lulu & Georgia for $330. However, it looks like you can get the same one here (in leather!) for $200. There’s also a simpler design on sale for $150. There are tons of colors to choose from, but I prefer tan. I think it will age beautifully.
  • Barely there sandals. I’ve never tried Ancient Greek Sandals (Megan loves them!), but these look like the perfect pair for the last few weeks of summer.

Filed Under: The Coveted Tagged With: ancient greek sandals, BB Dakota Bronwen dress, BB Dakota dresses, Clare V. clutch, fringe earrings, moroccan pouf, nude nail polish, Tory Burch earrings

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Hello there! I'm a first-time homeowner updating a 1920s house in Madison, Wisconsin. I have a penchant for travel and a love of costume jewelry.

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